Marriage requires work and work seems lighter if based on a foundation of respect and commitment. Work or tasks can be completed efficiently if couples communicate. Communication should come easy if the relationship were based of a foundation of...you know the words: respect and commitment.
Are you asking yourself: If I love my spouse and am committed to making our marriage work, why am I not succeeding?
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